Confessions Of a Former Self Hating Black Man who Used to Bash Black women on Social Media

By: Joshua T.

Before we get started please scroll down and look at the tweets below. They are examples of the types of tweets that I would have posted in the past.(These are not my actual tweets)

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If you’re reading this then the title probably drew you in. I am currently a 20 year old black man who did in fact live the first 19 years of his life as a self-hating, white woman (and other non-black women) obsessed black man who used to bash black women in real life and on social media. I am no longer this way and in the last few months I have undergone a great change. I would like to share my story for two reasons the first is because it rarely done and second is to answer questions like the ones that I usually see on social media. Tweet Pic

Before telling my story let me put a few things out there. My experience is my own but in having discussions with many other black men who have gone through similar experiences and finally woken up, I can say that many parts of my story mirrors theirs and in a way some parts of my story are representative of the stories of many black men who have been through this. Also, this article is in no way an attack on interracial dating or black people who prefer partners of other races. I am simply telling my story. Now that we have all of that out of the way let’s begin.

What exactly is a self-hating black man? A self-hating black man can be a lot of different things but for me it was a man who was not fully comfortable in his blackness and as result directed his feelings into other things in order to compensate. For me to reach the point that I am at now where I am able to label my former self as a self-hater has not been easy but through thinking back on my former thought process and actions It’s a conclusion that I found I cannot escape.
To give a little background on my life, I grew up in a two parent middle class household in the south. The city that I grew up in was, and still is consistently ranked as one of the most racially diverse cities in the United States. As a result of this I had a very diverse group of friends but when it came down to it my closest friends were all black males like me.

The backgrounds of my friends were were as diverse as the city I grew up I. Some were from the “hood”, while others were from the best neighborhoods in town. Despite our socioeconomic differences we all had one thing in common. We were all interested in white girls. This interest developed as soon as we began being interested in girls, which occurred sometime around second grade. From this time onward liking white girls was always the “cool” thing to do so everyone went along with it.

My friends and I were friends with black girls in our classes but we rarely had crushes on them. Looking back on it now, it was probably because we viewed them as being too similar to us and what we knew. They reminded us of our cousins, sisters and other female family members while white girls (and other non-black girls) on the other hand, were so different from us in so many ways. I personally believe that this is one of the main factors as to why many black men are so interested in women of other races.

The trend of liking white girls that began in elementary school continued throughout my school years. As I entered middle school and then high school it was impossible to escape the appeal of having a white or non-black girlfriend. Among my black friends, you were seen as almighty and powerful if you could get a white girl and if you found out that one liked you or had any interest in you; you were seen as a god.

The mindset of my friends and I at the time could be summed up as something along the lines of “if she ain’t white, she’s at least gotta be light”. Black women were barley on our radar and we treated them as such. At the time, I would sit back, laugh, and even join in as my friends would make fun of the black girls in our classes for things like their, hair, skin tone, or the way they talked. For me and my friends, white girls came first followed by Latina, Asians, and mixed girls, in no particular order. While me and some of my friends did date and like some black girls we still greatly respected guys who were able to get with women on different races.

To me most black women represented everything that I didn’t want in a woman. I felt that most were too loud, too argumentative, had too much attitude, and were too much to handle. I believed these things despite being raised by and around black women who represented absolutely none of these things. I simply saw my mother and other female family members as exceptions to my generalization so they didn’t count.

In contrast to black women, white women and women of other races represented everything that black women weren’t. They were beautiful, agreeable, adventurous, easy to handle, and most importantly possessed the genetic code that I wanted for my future children. When I thought of my future I would often picture a big house, nice cars and a white wife along with 2 mixed children that had “good hair”. I felt that if I could achieve this I would have it all. This is the part of my journey where I am able to look back on and pinpoint clear self-hate.
The tweet below is representative of my former thinking.

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My interest in women of other races may have started as something I developed because “it was cool” but it soon turned into something else. By wanting mixed children with “good hair” I was in a way putting down my own black features. I had thick nappy hair and dark skin. My features where in direct contrast to the features I wanted my future children to have which looking back on it now I see as a big problem. I never thought that I had problems with my skin tone or hair texture but my thought process confirmed that I did in fact have some issues which I have since overcome.

I continued to put white and other non-black women above black women until I entered college. It was during this time that everything changed. I currently attend one of the largest pwi’s (predominately white institutions) in the south. To a certain extent the school is socially segregated. From day one it was very clear that the white kids hung out with each other while the few black students at the school hung out with each other. This was no problem to me since all my friends growing up had always been black. The only issue I had was that I no longer had easy access to the non-black women that I desired. I was forced into a tight knit black community and forced to adapt and “deal” with black women and all the negative attributes that I felt that they possessed.

In finally “dealing” with black women and spending lots of time with them I realized that all the generalizations I had about them were completely untrue. The women that I spent a lot of time around were intelligent, beautiful, kind, inspiring, supportive, black women who finally helped bring me to the light. The thing that intrigued me most about them was despite being aware that they were undesired by many of their own men they still did everything they could to do uplift, support, and advocate for us.

My awakening occurred around the time when the Mike Brown shooting and other police shootings of unarmed black men occurred. As these events unfolded all the negative feelings and disinterest I had in black women immediately disappeared as I saw them scramble to organize demonstrations and rallies on behalf of black men being killed by the police. This was awe inspiring and life changing for me.In my experiences with dealing with women from other races I never saw any other group of women who were so for their men as black women are for black men.

In realizing this, I realized that I share the same blood line with such passionate, ambitious, and devoted women. To come to the realization that as a black man I am directly associated with such greatness that is the black women completely changed me. My interest in women of other races quickly went away after coming to this realization. I now find it embarrassing to even think back on the things I tweeted or said about black women that I once thought were so funny.

If you want to know why some black men post derogatory things about black women online ill tell you. The answer is quite simple. Black men who put down black women do it simply because they are not comfortable in themselves and in their blackness. Any black man who takes pride in being black would never disrespect a black woman because he knows that she is a part of him and knows that by disrespecting her he is disrespecting himself as well. Because it is not often brought to light, many people fail to realize that many back men and more specifically many dark skinned black men  have difficulties with accepting their blackness so they deal with it by bashing black women while uplifting women with features they prefer.

This combined with media influences that promote Eurocentric beauty standards often cause us black men to be influenced and indoctrinated with the message that white beauty is true beauty. It’s unfortunate that it took police brutality for me to finally come to see just how amazing black women were but it was an important wake up call for me

In closing, for any men who read this and are guilty putting down black women please take a second to think about your actions and how they might affect others. For all the women who read this please realize that the men who post things like I used to post, are lost and not comfortable in themselves so for that I apologize on behalf of them until they wake up and are able to apologize on their own.

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Gracie
2 years 9 months ago

Whoever you are, you’re still a pathetic negro. Stay with non-black women, we don’t want you.

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Anonymous
2 years 8 months ago

That’s honestly terrible. If people aren’t allowed to grow as a person what even is the meaning of life?

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Gracie
2 years 8 months ago

I know you thought you sounded deep, but you really just sound stupid and naive. I don’t buy for one second that this coon has changed,just like I wouldn’t buy it if a white person said they “saw the light” and suddenly weren’t racist anymore. Don’t reply to me again.

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agreed i dont see buddy changing like that bc he is ONLY 20 YEARS OLD

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teebask
2 years 8 months ago

actually college is when you often evolve very rapidly….. so much maturing month to month, year to year….. everyone’s lack of faith and support here is disheartening….. really.

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King umfuufuu
2 years 7 months ago

Angry negro woman

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Anonymous
2 years 6 months ago

Why are we still bashing black women? Who wouldn’t be angry? (Even though everything doesn’t always need to be said). It’s called venting!!!

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Not susan
2 years 8 months ago

Exactly, I agree but people need time to heal. For the people saying that BW do the same…us leaving is not because we are self-hating racist bigots towards our own people. We are being forced to leave and we are fed up with the insults, mental abuse and humiliation by our counterparts. We are tired of weak men who crack because one black woman hurt their feelings and now they want to punish all black women for that one woman’s action. Black men are the only men who degrade and berate their women to the world. I have lived in… Read more »

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KrabbyKakes
2 years 7 months ago

This man didn’t even take this message to black men! He came here to us on some “You are now human because I approve of you” BS expecting cookies. We know we are amazing. Nothing that these hateful black men do has ever negated that so he needs to tell all this hogwash to a different audience. Ladies wake up. Black men do not have an economy of their own in ANY country in the WORLD (don’t tell me about north africa when arabs own everything there or the rest of africa when the black governments there are just proxies… Read more »

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Anonymous
2 years 5 months ago

I’m a white guy and this is what been talking about a lot. Black women are hell of a lot stronger than your punk ass home boys. We feel so bad for the strong black women to deal with these sorry excuse of men

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Teya
2 years 8 months ago

I would never trust or respect a coon like this.. In my opinion most Black Men are like this and I really have no respect for them at all

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Anon
2 years 8 months ago

True

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Anonymous
2 years 8 months ago

U just as bad and sound like him,just another version

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Teya
2 years 8 months ago

No I’m just telling the truth..you got a problem with that?

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Anonymous
2 years 8 months ago

yep

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Teya
2 years 8 months ago

So What?

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teebask
2 years 8 months ago

you sound like the female version of him…. self-hating towards our community…. the fact that you just called him a coon. damn, you sad….. we all grow and come form different environments. the fact that he has the vision to correct himself and see how shitty his former self was….. y’all are really ignorant.

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Sunny
2 years 8 months ago

Yeah all these negative women up here sound just like him. At least he’s changing.

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Anonymous
2 years 5 months ago

black on black racism. thats doing alot to further your cause

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Nikki
2 years 8 months ago

I disagree I see someone who is trying to grow as a person and change

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anon
2 years 8 months ago

Word! Reading this pathetic negro admission only made me despise most black men even more. I would never date or marry one.

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Chawntavia
2 years 8 months ago

It’s funny how you have the balls to say “negro” on a My Black matters Page 😑

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Anonymous
2 years 7 months ago

Because you would never date or marry yourself, most likely. Hating the very thing that created you. Funny.

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Anonymous
2 years 8 months ago

That’s not nice and not Godky

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Anonymous
2 years 8 months ago

I don’t agree with you calling him a negro but I understand your pain. I agree that we don’t need men who can’t show us the love that we deserve and that they should stay with their ideal white woman. Many of us are tired and are done with searching for our IBM. However, us leaving is not because we are self-hating racist bigots towards our own people. We are being forced to leave and we are fed up with the insults, mental abuse and humiliation by our counterparts. We are tired of weak men who crack because one black… Read more »

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Isis
2 years 6 months ago

Gracie, you’re an idiot! He is being honest and open about his road to self discovery.

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Nicole
2 years 5 months ago

I’m a black woman and I would like to say to the author that this post was much needed. I could not understand the prejudice from black men for many years against me because I was a black woman. Hurt and confused for a long time.After reading this post I have a understanding of why some black men may feel the way they do. I’m glad to know that you as a black man understand that every black woman are different individuals. Blacks have been indoctrinated by what they hear or see in the media on what is good or… Read more »

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Anonymous
2 years 5 months ago

Exactly!! I was thinking the same thing.

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2 years 9 months ago

We already knew that.

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Disgusted By This Guy
2 years 9 months ago

I don’t know what you hoped to accomplish with this ridiculous piece of trash but you should have told it to a priest or some type of mental health professional. People like you are a lost cause and a waste of space and time. I feel sorry for whatever non Black man or woman you end up with because you clearly have issues that you haven’t dealt with.

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Sean
2 years 8 months ago

I don’t know why you’re so angry. I’m a black guy and i have a lot of friends who still think this way. Just thank this guy for telling the truth and letting you see how a lot of black men think,

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TheAverageGuy
2 years 8 months ago

If, as a black man, you are unable to see why this article makes people angry, then you’re an idiot. Some African American men are self-hating and weak-minded beyond repair. Why should anybody thank this guy? Should people start thanking idiots like Tommy Sotomayor too?

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Anonymous
2 years 8 months ago

No one respects the opinion of black males anyway.

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Anon
2 years 8 months ago

HAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHA EXACTLY THE idiots

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Nikki
2 years 8 months ago

That’s not true that’s not true

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Teya
2 years 8 months ago

We already know that most of you feel that way that’s why a growing number of us hate you.

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Nikki
2 years 8 months ago

Speak for ya self

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Teya
2 years 8 months ago

I am speaking for myself so unless I mention your name keep it moving.

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Ihatu
2 years 5 months ago

Coon

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Anonymous
2 years 8 months ago

And we know that black women feel like that towards us.Black men have always been the main topic of why the hood aint been right,said by black women first and still till today.Im not on this bruthas side cause i love my black women,but i know why black men bash they own black women and its a simple answer.CAUSE THEY DO IT TO US.

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Teya
2 years 8 months ago

That’s such a lie and if BW do bash you its because you have made it a job to bash us and we’re now fighting back. Go to YouTube and the proof is right there. Please don’t play the victim role because I know better.

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Mia
2 years 8 months ago

Uh, you can gtfoh with this bullsh!t. Black women are dealing with the SAME exact racism you are, PLUS misogyny, and we manage not to take all our problems out on YOU, publicly disrespect YOUR humanity for kicks, or harass YOU online all fxcking day and generally act a complete fxcking fool on the internet. There’s NO EXCUSE for the psychotic behavior of black “male” trolls, nor is there ANY excuse for you to bring your DECEITFUL passive aggressive behind on here to DIMINISH sheer extent of harassment and abuse these black “males” are subjecting Black women to. You want… Read more »

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2 years 8 months ago

Black women are dealing with the SAME exact racism you are, PLUS misogyny, and we manage not to take all our problems out on YOU, publicly disrespect YOUR humanity for kicks, or harass YOU online all fxcking day and act a complete fxcking fool on the internet. There’s NO EXCUSE for the psychotic behavior of black “male” trolls, nor is there ANY excuse for your DECEITFUL behind to DIMINISH sheer extent of harassment and abuse these black “males” are subjecting Black women to. You want to solve this “problem”? Go straight to the SOURCE: misogynistic black “males”. Stop being deceitful… Read more »

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anon
2 years 8 months ago

EXACTLY!

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2 years 7 months ago

And this, is the VERY reason, why guys with his personality and character traits, would definitely be a deal-breaker. I am glad to state and see that many sistas are actualizing that they CAN do better!

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Kayla
2 years 8 months ago

Did you even read the ENTIRE article. He realized his wrong, he grew as a person! Are people not allowed to grow into better people ? Huh…that’s funny, thought that was the purpose of life.

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milan summers
2 years 8 months ago

Exactly imagine if a black woman wrote this shit she would be lynched but because it’s a man we should appreciate that he’s grown.

I’m just thinking nowadays what’s the difference between a black man and a racist white/asian/latino guy?

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Nikki
2 years 8 months ago

If dont no the difference ur the one wit the issues on top of issues on top issues. Hav u had no gd black men in ya life dam not even ya daddy shit cuz thats wat it sound like shit smh

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Anonymous
2 years 8 months ago

BLACK WOMEN WRITE IT ALL THE TIME,THATS WHY THE MAIN TOPIC IN THE BLACK COMMUNITY FOR THE LAST 40 YEARS HAS BEEN AND STILL IS:WHEN YALL GONNA BE FATHERS,AND BE HUSBANDS,AND STOP CARRYING GUNS AND SELLIN DOPE,WHEN YALL GONNA GET AN EDUCATION,WHEN YALL GONNA BE KINGS INSTEAD OF CRIMINALS AND THUGS,WHEN U GONNA BRING THE COMMUNITY BACK AND THEN ACT LIKE THEY CANT FIND A GOOD MAN IN A BLACK MAN,THEN ACT LIKE THEY HAVE GAVE UP SO MUCH TO PUT UP WITH OUR SHIT.

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Jeeda
2 years 8 months ago

What’s wrong with asking black men to be husbands and fathers? Tp stop being criminals and all the other stuff you posted. Not ONE of those things you posted was out of line. So why can’t BW ask this of BM and why can’t BM just do it? Seems like black men live in some fantasy world where theu can use BW, make children with us, demand love and respect from us but give us NOTHING in return. Sorry my friend but those days are OVER. And Black men themselves killed it. BW was going along with the baby mama… Read more »

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Stop the bs
2 years 8 months ago

Too true. The status quo was alright for tooo many sistas til the cyber bashing started and opened up some eyes. Sad it took that for us to critically think about our lives and who deserves to be in it.

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Femenina
2 years 6 months ago

This black male has been degrading black women’s humanity for a long time. The damage is done. Writing an article saying “I’m sorry, I didn’t realize how useful black women could be when we black men need them to fight our battles for us” does not repair the damage this “man” has done to the psyches of the black women who’ve been exposed to his poison, or take back all of the evil messages and propaganda he’s already put about us out into the universe. This is like a KKK member writing an apology article after years of writing hate… Read more »

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Nikki
2 years 8 months ago

And it seems as though hes trying to deal with them hav u ever needed to be forgiven for something

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Disgusted By This Guy
2 years 8 months ago

Obviously you missed the point of my post so I will clarify. No one cares what people like you or your friends or this guy think. People like you are operating under the misguided notion that Black women are languishing because a few lost boys date outside the race. I can tell you definitively that there are no real Black Men that feel like this or ever behaved like you or your friends or the writer. There are probably lots of lost boys that feel or felt this way but no real Black men. No decent Black men with even… Read more »

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Anonymous
2 years 8 months ago

Why criticize someone who was lost but now recognizes their wrongs? That’s growth, I hope you’ve experienced that in you’re life at some point.

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Anonymous
2 years 8 months ago

Exactly. At least the author of the article recognized where he went wrong and has now made efforts to reconcile his negative attitude.

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Teya
2 years 8 months ago

So What? He’s hurt a lot of black women and girls with his hateful ways and shit just doesn’t go away with a half ass I’m sorry.. I for one don’t believe a word of this garbage.

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Anonymous
2 years 8 months ago

I’m sorry, but to say that the way these young men think is just isolated to them is being naive and dismissive. There are PLENTY of Black males who think like this. Need proof? Check social media.

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2 years 8 months ago

okay but you’re still trash though.

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Anonymous
2 years 8 months ago

(^o^) yes he is

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Anon
2 years 8 months ago

Are you guys really serious right now? Lol. Dude I commend you, glad you came to realization. There is no reason for anybody to be angry at this article because every sentence of it is true, if self hate isn’t the reason for degrading black women then it’s being an ego maniac who choose to go to another race who will be submissive to him. Y’all are crazy and look even more ignorant than y’all are trying to make him look.

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milan
2 years 8 months ago

Another black man that hates black women ladies and gentlemen

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Nikki
2 years 8 months ago

Yea I agree wit u he gotta start t somewhere he admitted his rong

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Anonymous
2 years 8 months ago

He is just 1 of too many bm that have come to this realization.. The are still far too many bm who feel the way he did.. In other words.. the damage has been done and there are many bw who dont know if they will ever be able to forgive bm for the damage they have done to us.

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anon
2 years 8 months ago

“he damage has been done and there are many bw who dont know if they will ever be able to forgive bm for the damage they have done to us.”

This is exactly how i feel, i absolutely refuse to protest, march, support ANY black male. I can’t even bring my self to even date one. I’m sorry but i’ve gotten to the point where i can’t stand the sight of most black men.

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Sista
2 years 8 months ago

Thank you for being honest about this. All the people bashing him need to stop. We all make mistakes. It takes courage to own up to it. In his case, he was acting like this not fully aware as to why while it was happening. He now understands why.

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milan summers
2 years 8 months ago

Shut the fuck up

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Teya
2 years 8 months ago

Fk him.

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Anonymous
2 years 8 months ago

he can kiss my black ass with that apology smh

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Nikki
2 years 8 months ago

Some of these women r crazy I dont get it the boy apologized

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2 years 8 months ago

Lol @ the author leaving comments trying to defend this weak shit. As a young dark skin black woman, this just proves to me why I am right for avoiding most black males. This “awakening” is totally self serving i.e. WHAT CAN BLACK WOMEN DO FOR ME? Tell me if black women couldn’t protect/support your black ass would we still be deserving of even half of the respect and compassion that you have to offer non black women? I doubt it. My skin crawled reading this shit. And the fact that your weak ass wants some recognition from black women… Read more »

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Anonymous
2 years 8 months ago

Exactly.

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BDB
2 years 8 months ago

“As a young dark skin black woman, this just proves to me why I am right for avoiding most black males.”

Isn’t you avoiding “most black males” for some of the few you’ve encountered the sames thing that author was doing? The article itself was self serving to me, but still, you painting most black males with the same brush and avoiding them is the same at the author avoiding most black women.

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milan
2 years 8 months ago

No it’s not, the writer disrespected/avoided us because of how we look, whereas black women are avoiding black men because of how much they disrespect us, so…

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Teya
2 years 8 months ago

Exactly but for some of these people it’s wrong for black women to avoid/dislike them, we’re supposed to endure and understand them and remain loyal and smile… Not me.. Im fine with non black men who treat me way better than black men. At some point this has to stop and we’re the only one’s that can make that happen, avoiding them like the plague is an excellent start.

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anon
2 years 8 months ago

Non-black men are ten times better than most black men could ever be in every way possible. I’ve always preferred dating outside my race and could never understand why most black women are only interested in black men. smh

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anon
2 years 8 months ago

WELL SAID! THANK YOU!

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2 years 8 months ago

I love it much love and respect go out to

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YOU ALL ARE FUCKING HYPOCRITES
2 years 8 months ago

Amen girl. Fuck these haters

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SHUT UP BOOTLICKER
2 years 8 months ago

Bitch Stfu !!!!!
Dummies like you are the reason these black motherfuckers think they can treat us anyway they want and get away with it! Keep licking these niggas boots but leave the rest of us out of it!
Stupid Biatch!

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jusme
2 years 7 months ago

I like to call them bandwagon hoes..lol’n at all they’re stupid hate jokes on social media just so “they can be down” poor things have no backbone and no idea of their worth.

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Anonymous
2 years 8 months ago

I agree I dont get

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Nikki
2 years 8 months ago

Agreed

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Anonymous
2 years 8 months ago

BEST COMMENT TODAY

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milan summers
2 years 8 months ago

I swear black women are truly cursed to have these stupid coons associated with us. I don’t give a fuck if you changed, you guys have no idea how your actions affect others. It’s always me me me and some black women stay supporting you guys. So basically you only started liking black women because of what they do for black men. That’s so selfish and disgusting. Men of other races just respect their women because they ARE FUCKING HUMAN BEINGS. I don’t know what kind of men black women are raising but they should be ashamed of themselves because… Read more »

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Lisa
2 years 8 months ago

Yep.

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Anonymous
2 years 8 months ago

Exactly. Black American men are extremely selfish. I mean if you think about it this coon was 100% white girl, been like that since he was a baby. Nkw because a few white girls turned up their nkse to him, here these coons come ru ning back to the very women they said look like buvs or whatever. Niggas got no loyalty to any women. Whatever woman is giving them the biggest benefits package RIGHT NOW is the woman they siding with.

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Anonymous
2 years 8 months ago

I’ve never seen so much negativity in my life, lol Yall wylin.. Remember admitting is always the first step, this nigha is on a healing ass self love journey, growth is uncomfortable but real.

Everyone wants to hate and be against

If you don’t have anything nice to say, you probably don’t love yourself or have integrity, so don’t say shit at all.

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YourMum
2 years 8 months ago

Shut the fuck up house slave!

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Nikki
2 years 8 months ago

Thank u someone wit some sese

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milan summers
2 years 8 months ago

Says the person who keeps making spelling mistakes fuck off mate

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Stacy P
2 years 8 months ago

The average black man is so weak and easily led. Instead of coveting the white man’s economic power, political clout, and control of all industries , you covet his woman. Thinking with your dicks instead of your brains, just like the oversexed animals they portray you to be. Longing for the opportunity to turn your bloodline white instead of building a legacy of a strong black nation. Disgusting. This is what the bible is referring to when it says God will turn away from you, it’s for worshipping your enemies and not seeing the glory in yourselves. But of course… Read more »

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Stacy P
2 years 8 months ago

By ALL I mean you stupid black coons and your recessive-gened snow bunnies. We birthed all you bitches. We came first and we will be last. Fuckboy.

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Blackmenannoyme
2 years 7 months ago

PREACHHHHHHHH STACY!!!!

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Lisa
2 years 8 months ago

It’s too late. I’m a black girl who has still never dated a black guy because I figured out years ago how hateful they are, and I still never will. Already found the one and he’s not black.

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Anonymous
2 years 6 months ago

Same:)

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rat
2 years 8 months ago

You’re still a self – hating negro who hates black women. Go back to white women you stupid self hating stank bussy negro! Black women don’t need your coon ass.

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Teya
2 years 8 months ago

Black Women have got to stop caping for these demons.. They have shown repeatedly how much they despise our very presence in every way possible.. I will never march or lift a finger to help a Black Man ..they never ever march or demonstrate for Black Women and laugh and say we deserve it when racism happens to us. Black Men have become our worst enemy and we need to treat them as such. Please stop fighting for people who want you dead or at least invisible. Let them fight their own battles.

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Anonymous
2 years 8 months ago

Amen!

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angel
2 years 8 months ago

I have no words! 😑

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Selfish Habesha
2 years 8 months ago

I’m sorry but this idiot can shove his apology up his ass. I am a non American black woman of Eritrean, South African and Arab decent, pretty much black mum, Arab dad. I am sorry to say but black American men are trash. Pure filthy fucking trash with the way that they speak about their own women. I have many black American women who have married into my family and these women are so lovely, but the stories that they have told us about their experiences growing up around black American men are just so heartbreaking and disgusting. This is… Read more »

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Lisa
2 years 8 months ago

Yep.

Light-skinned, Would never spit in their direction.

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Blac
2 years 8 months ago

Arabs are one of the most destructive people towards African women. If you have that ugly Semitic nose then you can trust my Black American(By way of Caribbean) self wouldn’t give you a second look.

East Africans are not respected at all.

South Africa has turned 3rd world.

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2 years 8 months ago

You know the part of this that’s really sad. He would never date a Black woman or consider her and even considered mixed race women the last of preference all the while wanting to have mixed kids. …

WOW!! I mean self hate is deep man.

At the end of the day it’s not about love of a WW but love of a WM. Real talk.

This guy admitted that he would never fully love anything produced by his own seed, but worshiped the seed of a white man.

Amazing. ..

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Anon
2 years 8 months ago

Fuck him and his parents, stupid nigger. I can’t believe he grew up with two parents but he still hated black women. Whereas I grew up without my father but I never hated black men… until now though. Seriously fuck him

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2 years 8 months ago

He’s crazy as hell. ..

It doesn’t surprise me though that he grew up with 2 black parents. All skinfolks ain’t kinfolks. Some black people want their sons to marry non black women. It’s a status thing. . ..

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Jeeda
2 years 8 months ago

I completely agree with this. So many black women grew up without fathers. Our fathers were out on the streets cheating on our mothers…some looking for white women (not my daddy. He cheated but would never touch a WW). Yet we black women grown up, stuff all that anger and hurt down, down, down and try to do the best we can to show black men we still love them. Yes we are out organising, calling lawyers, getting news crew’s when ever a black man is wrongfully injured or arrested or killed. We fight to the death for our sons… Read more »

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Anonymous
2 years 8 months ago

Why did you feel the need to publish this? It is beyond offensive, not to mention hurtful. The problem isn’t your preference for white women, it’s your hatred for black women. You treated black women as less than other women and because of what? Stereotypes? Was it worth it? It is almost as if it is often times forgotten that black women are very much humans with emotions. Every time I read an article where black women have been yet again ridiculed by black men it makes me want to have nothing to do with them, but then I have… Read more »

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YOU ALL ARE FUCKING HYPOCRITES
2 years 8 months ago

Did y

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YOU ALL ARE FUCKING HYPOCRITES
2 years 8 months ago

Did u even read the entire fucking article all the way to the end

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MS
2 years 8 months ago

At this point I would rather be a fetish for some white guy than date a black man who has underlying self-hate

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Lisa
2 years 8 months ago

Truth! Deep, and truth!

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Willie Lynch Is Somewhere Laughing
2 years 5 months ago

That’s a sad fucking statement that you’d rather be fetishized by the very scum that created this division, than date a black man. You can sift through the racist, misogynistic, fetish-obsessed, sex-obsessed white men who have deep seeded hatred for you, but no black man on this planet is good enough for you? I know soooo many black men who ONLY date black women, treat them as their QUEENS. To say they don’t exist is the fucking lie of the century. Willie Lynch’s work at its FINEST.

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Lola
2 years 8 months ago

Man please… Non whites can have you if they want… Even before I was awake,I didn’t down my own to worship others! You came from a two parent household for goodness sakes! Sad… how can you hate black women when you came from one?? I understand having a preference but I can’t understand the hate and jokes… Our ancestors breastfed the oppressor’s offsprings, we keep the world running, trust.

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Anonymous
2 years 8 months ago

Dude changed his ways and yall acting like assholes. If any of yall make mistakes I hope nobody forgives your asses

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YOU ALL ARE FUCKING HYPOCRITES
2 years 8 months ago

THANK YOU. SOMEONE WHO HAS A BRAIN!

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milan
2 years 8 months ago

Oh shut up anytime a black woman makes a mistake NO-ONE forgives her, and black men are the ones who will attack her the most

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2 years 6 months ago

LOL.

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kmiggy
2 years 8 months ago

Where is the evidence that he changed his ways? Did he isolate himself from his friends who would ‘like’ his posts? Did he do anything? No, he had an internal change and so far, nothing outward. This piece read like he couldn’t find a white girlfriend at college so he is now spending time with black women…

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milan summers
2 years 8 months ago

Exactly wait until a white/asian or latina comes his way then black women are going to be black bitches all over again.

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2 years 6 months ago

Or he get some change-if he do. LOL! Seriously though, he may be different but other coons would do just what you are saying.

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MimiLuvs...
2 years 8 months ago

Exactly.

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YOU ALL ARE FUCKING HYPOCRITES
2 years 8 months ago

DID ANY OF YOU ASSHOLES READ THE ENTIRE ARTICLE. HE HAS APOLOGIZED FOR HIS ACTIONS AND THE PEOPLE HE HAS HURT. HE NO LONGER THINKS THIS WAY AND NO LONGER HAS SELF HATE. I HOPE THAT NO WOULD EXCEPT ANY OF YALLS APOLOGIES IF YOU SAY SORRY YOU FUCKING ASSHOLES.

FORGIVE BUT NEVER FORGET. Fuck all you hypocrites

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Anonymous
2 years 8 months ago

if your not a black women you would never understand.

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YOU ALL ARE FUCKING HYPOCRITES
2 years 8 months ago

I am a black woman and I understand. People need to learn forgiveness because the past is the fucking past. Forgive but never forget

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Anonymous
2 years 8 months ago

so you would actually date a men who had a serious obsession over white women and disrespect black women publicly and also on social media i have to much self respect to give a men like him a chance with my self.

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2 years 8 months ago

CALM DOWN H0E!

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2 years 6 months ago

She can say what she want PLAYA.

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Anonymous
2 years 8 months ago

The only reason why he discovered his self-hate was due to the separation of the races at his college. White women were paying him dust and he was FORCED to be around black women.

Why should black women be happy about that? He’ll start singing a different tune once those same girls start give him the time of day.

If you truly care for black women then you’d reveal yourself so all our asses can stay away from you.

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Anonymous
2 years 8 months ago

exactly <3

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milan
2 years 8 months ago

PREACH, when he gets around white women again watch the jokes come out to play. My only happiness in all this is knowing that black men and white women have the highest divorce rates I’m like hahahahahahhahahahahaha

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2 years 5 months ago

Yes, ha,ha,ha…. Yet the black woman has SUCCESSFUL marriages with everyone!!! Black men simply refuse to propose to us and this has broken down the family structure. They are too weak to take on the responsibility of husband and provider. They are selfish and pathetic! Whenever they do marry white women, it is normally to USE her for economic footing. This is why their marriages with ww rarely work.

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kmiggy
2 years 8 months ago

Lol, exactly. I should have read further for your post before posting above you. (I was looking hard for a comment like this too!

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2 years 6 months ago

Yeah. Seems like he wouldn’t have this “awakening” if he’d have been able to pull the white girls he truly desires. Self-hate is a deep-seated thing and it won’t just go away like he says it has. One more thing…. This whole “white man’s bed-wench” thing is so new to me. I’ve only ever been with black men and based on my extensive experience, they are the ones who treat us like bed-wenches. I’ve never dated or been with a non-black guy but the times a romance could have possible they were nothing like black men. They want to talk… Read more »

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Anonymous
2 years 8 months ago

Stay with your white women. Do black women a favor. 😒

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joan of arc
2 years 8 months ago

Reveal yourself you effing coward. Why be anonymous now? I’ll give you something to make you run back to your white girls. What happens if you daughter comes out looking like you? I’ll laugh my ass off at your stupidity. I feel sorry for your daughter. When your momma puts on makeup she’s a bug dressed up in diamonds. lol. I can’t wait to tell your mommy what you think of her. Let me know your name. I’ll read her this article you wrote. I’ll call child services for your future kids. Somebody find this ip address. Contact anonymous. Call… Read more »

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2 years 8 months ago

How many black men ever go through this self reflection, especially at such a young age? Personally, I am appreciative of his decision to share his perspective. I was actually surprised at the angry comments, but I understand them. They come from a place of hurt. This mentality amongst black men causes a LOT of damage in the black community. But an important piece that strikes me, that no one is commenting on, is where the story begins. Second grade. Wow, just imagine. People, understand that this is a conversation about BLACK LOVE, and how from the earliest stages of… Read more »

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Anonymous
2 years 8 months ago

why is it always black WOMEN to scream black love all the time but not black men that right there says alot.

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milan
2 years 8 months ago

Fuck Black love man it doesn’t exist stop trying to sell black women this ridiculous dream whilst black men are running around beating every non-black woman they can find.

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Anonymous
2 years 8 months ago

i wish these women would be more realistic.

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milan
2 years 8 months ago

Realistic how? Like how are we not being realistic?

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Anonymous
2 years 8 months ago

everyone know that black guys out here could give two crap about black “love”

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milan
2 years 8 months ago

I agree black women make themselves look like fools “Oh I’m waiting for my black king” whilst he’s like “Fuck black bitches ” it’s so sad to see

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kmiggy
2 years 8 months ago

He wrote nothing about love, black or otherwise. You are reading quite a lot into what he wrote.

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Anonymous
2 years 8 months ago

Your comprehension skills are lacking because he his post wasn’t about black love.

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Milan
2 years 8 months ago

We never said he was but the comment we replied to mentioned it so that’s we are addressing please piss off

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Anonymous
2 years 8 months ago

Girl bye, I didn’t read anything about Black love in the article. Never once did he say he was in love with a black woman.

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2 years 8 months ago

Anon Milan is talking about the comment by Lu who your post is an extension of. “People, understand that this is a conversation about BLACK LOVE, and how from the earliest stages of sexual development, it is under attack. He is giving a testimony about how our white-supremacist society white-washed him, and all of his friends. There is a premium on white beauty that is taught at an early age. My Nigerian-born-and-raised boyfriend went through this to some degree, as do MOST black guys. We women internalize the same thing in our expression of beauty enhancements via weaves, wigs, and… Read more »

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2 years 8 months ago

This was great insight on the sickness that too many of our black men have. He answered a lot of questions for me. I only hope that he spreads the message to his fellow brothers. Everyone has a right to grow and wake up! A lot of our men are asleep and/or brainwashed and don’t even realize it. There is a thin line between preference of other races and bashing your own women looking for reasons to point fingers and criticize.

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LOL
2 years 8 months ago

Lol…where is the “black love”? He still does not see black women’s humanity or view black women as desirable WOMEN. He merely realized black women’s potential usefulness in protecting and defending him from the white man that these weak, pansy, unmanly coons are so afraid of. Black women are women, and the normal ones amongst us want to be loved, appreciated, desired, cared for, supported, and treated like the women we are. We want to be able to relax and be feminine. We want to be wives. We don’t want to have to step outside of our feminine nature constantly… Read more »

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Virgo Baby
2 years 8 months ago

This was extremely well said! You hit the nail on the head

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Sojorner
2 years 5 months ago

“Ain’t I a woman?”

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Anonymous
2 years 8 months ago

Reading this so much. Anyway I want to say to black women that we should stop defending black men all the time let’s just focus on ourselves. I feel like black women care more about black men than we do about
ourselves.

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milan summers
2 years 8 months ago

This is very true

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2 years 6 months ago

Amen.

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2 years 6 months ago

So true.

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Adjoa
2 years 8 months ago

The comments in this post didn’t have to degenerate so quickly into an argument riddled with name-calling and profanity. It will never be okay for members of any race (male or female) to justify why they would turn against/abandon their own instead of cooperating or working towards a compromise. There is ENOUGH anger and hurt going around already. If the author realized he made a mistake and owned up to it, let him know he’s on the right path. If you can’t or won’t, then simply ignore the post. But if you must explain WHY his apology or reformation mean… Read more »

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Chile Bye
2 years 8 months ago

White supremacy is a threat to black people everywhere, even when the white supremacist is another black person. We do not have to stand with white supremacists EVER.

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milan summers
2 years 8 months ago

Stand together? Never will I stand with men who have disrespected and slandered me more than any other person. Black men hurt black women so much with the BS in this article but we are supposed to stand together.

Do me a favour shut the fuck up, he didn’t realise he made mistake he was “forced” to hang around black women and then tried to make the best of it.

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ish
2 years 8 months ago

I never hurt a black woman in my life. I’m sorry about whatever you have gone through with other black men. However, the idea of united we stand divided we fall is all very real. The Willie lynch letters talk about why there is this sort of treatment of each other in the black community specifically.

It’s never good to label a group of people based on the actions of the few.

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ish
2 years 8 months ago

Having very dark skin and a high vocabulary/ enunciating “talking white”, reading alot, and not being able to afford cool clothes alwaysmade me undesirable to black females. Actually the number one reason for not even rejection but straight up cruelty from black females has always been that I “sound white”. The second highest is how I dress. Never has anything to do with who I am as a person.

That to me just says I am not preferred by that one person. Not black women as a whole. People thinking that way really only perpetuates the problem.

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Teya
2 years 8 months ago

But for so many of you all a Black Woman has to do is have dark skin and she’s hated immediately.. she doesn’t even have to speak.

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2 years 8 months ago

Maybe if you stopped calling us females like we were on the auction block some would talk to ya.

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Teya
2 years 8 months ago

You should go on YouTube and tell all those Black guys that bash Black females ( SWP, CRAZY BRAH, TOMMY SOTOMAYOR) this information.

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2 years 8 months ago

Babe Willie Lynch isn’t real. http://manuampim.com/lynch_hoax3.pdf

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2 years 8 months ago

Yaaaaawwwwwwnnnnnn*****

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Lisa
2 years 8 months ago

I’m not worried about white supremacy. I’m worried about the fact that black men kill black women more than any race of women gets killed by their race of men.

I do not want to be around dangerous black men.

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Too Strong For Too Long
2 years 7 months ago

As it has already been said here, It’s not the dating of other women that gets to us, it’s the hatred of black women, the virulent public hatred, and disrespect displayed by black men. What was the reason for that? You act as if we spent all of this time on our yacht. We’ve been subjected to everything they were subjected to, plus sexism, and misogyny, as well. We’ve been left alone to fend for ourselves, and our children in poverty, and in an environment made hostile, and unsafe by the habits of other black men who were still hanging… Read more »

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2 years 7 months ago

Girl! This comment almost made me cry! So true.

Black women I promise for all the good and sacrifices you’ve done you will be rewarded for it. These black men will crawl on their bellies to kiss your feet or be destroyed. They will get what they deserve too. And when the smoke clears then maybe we’ll be able to see about some “black love”.

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Anonymous
2 years 6 months ago

What you said!

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2 years 6 months ago

I hope we eventually learn to stop fighting each other and stand together. There “is” no benefit in standing with people that do not mean us well even if they are black. Skin color ain’t enough.F- that! Real black people deserve solidarity forever. Black traitors never. This guy may have truly changed, but his reasons do seem kinda suspect. I do give him some benefit of the doubt because black people have been brainwashed to hate themselves. Still, there are too many people like this and alot of them do this mess when it is convenient. They are back to… Read more »

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Brittany
2 years 8 months ago

…… sooooooooooo
This is some self congratulatory bullshit. He spent 19 whole years attacking black women but now out of necessity he sees we’re as good as white women? Not once in this shit article did he mention that white women could be flawed or even posses the traits he hated black women for. He didn’t learn to value us. He just out of necessity decided we can be as good as white women. Then he said he only did it after we proved our virtue to him.
Bitch what?
Fuck this dude.

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Jeeda
2 years 8 months ago

Let’s be 100% real. Lets read between the lines people… This coon was trying to get a white girl in college and couldn’t get one. Thats all it is. In the town he was from he could pull a white chick every now and again but in college these white women wasnt checking for his butt. Those white women want MEN who can marry them and give them families. Not black men who abandon their own children and attack their own women and expect the world to keep tolerating their bull crap. So this young man got a reality check.… Read more »

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anon
2 years 8 months ago

PREACH!

Black men have really made me despise them for the past 2 decades now. The only ones i love and respect are my closest male relatives….A feel no connection or camaraderie for most black men outside of my immediate family. I really don’t understand how so many black women still blindly support them and fight their battles for them. I just don’t get it.

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Anon
2 years 8 months ago

I almost feel bad for you but you should’ve known. As you can see, they don’t care about your black ass either. Forget protests and marches for black men killed by white cops. They’re not protesting for YOU as an individual. It’s all for this new trend and selfish reasons. You wanna talk to the white or latin girl on campus? GO FOR IT. Don,t apologize for it because they’re not. No matter what you do they’re gonna focus on nothing but the negative. That’s why this article has more comments on it than any other article actually uplifting them.… Read more »

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Anonymous
2 years 8 months ago

When black men start giving us something other then NEGATIVE then we’ll focus on that. Lol. But in the meantime you want to give black women 100% hate then cry victim when it comes right back? No way.

But I agree. If he wants to keep getting rejected by white women he should go for it. What black woman was stopping him? None over here im guessing. Lol.

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Anon
2 years 8 months ago

I’ve never seen a group of people who swear up and down to be such strong women but play the victim every chance they get.

There could be a line with 100 black men saying they like black women and one black man will say he hates them. Guess who will get attacked & all the attention? That’s right, the one man. Y’all think y’all so strong but you all are so weak.

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2 years 8 months ago

LMAO! Fuck you, you worthless piece of shit! Not a one us is EVER obligated to tolerate or even forgive your psychotic and abusive behavior JUST b/c YOU’RE having a “hard time” dealing with the SAME exact racism we ALSO deal with every damn day. Don’t you EVER in your dumb life forget it. If you or any other black “male” thinks that Black women were put here JUST to be your personal punching bags, you BELONG in jail and you need to be kept away from ALL women and children! Fuck. Outta. Here. If you DUMB FUCKS had just… Read more »

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2 years 8 months ago

Guess what? Despite what your DELUSIONAL black “male” ass thinks, our social support is NOT guaranteed.Like someone said upthread, a growing number of us HATE you – and that’s YOUR fault for constantly disrespecting our humanity in the FIRST place, something you should have NEVER EVER done. EVER. There’s no excuse. Misogynistic black “male” trolls like you disgust the hell out of me to the point that I truly don’t care whether you WORTHLESS, hateful, abusive black “males” live or die. This “divide” 100% YOUR fault, not OURS. As a Black woman, I haven’t done a goddamned thing to deserve… Read more »

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milan summers
2 years 8 months ago

Exactly please leave us alone.

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Mia
2 years 8 months ago

Exactly.

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Anonymous
2 years 8 months ago

So organizing and marching for black men who are murdered is being done because we’re selfish and a trend? Who raised you?

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Anon
2 years 8 months ago

Yes. Are you marching for the black kids being killed while playing in the yard or doing their homework? Hell no. Because that’s not the cool trendy thing to do.

Y’all swear y’all some revolutionaries for marching and tweeting some shit. You gets no credit.

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Anonymous
2 years 8 months ago

Meanwhile you black men dont seem to be organizing shit. Yall sit on your dumb asses waiting for black women or white people to do it. Then got the nerve to act like they aint doing enough for you?

“Well what about the chikdren shot while doing homework” well why your fucki g ass aint organized it? Because your lame ass is waiting for a woman to do it.

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2 years 6 months ago

Where are “misogynoir” black males when it comes to black on black violence? I tell you where. MIA and being social media troll warriors scapegoating black women. Get back with us when you all get off your tails for once.

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2 years 8 months ago

Everyone: exhibit A of the typical cowardly, bitter, angry, bxtch azz, misogynistic black “male” troll that haunts websites for Black women. It constantly harasses, harangues, and trolls Black women wherever it goes. It makes the most STUPID assumptions about Black women’s sexuality known to man [while being PSYCHOTICALLY abusive about it like some kind of frothing beast] just because it’s little bxtch azz is CLEARLY intimidated by white men. It habitually exhibits nothing but depraved, wimpy, cowardly, unmanly, sissified bxtch azz behavior. This “thing” is disgusting, but we should study it in it’s natural habitat – the county jail –… Read more »

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Anonymous
2 years 8 months ago

The only reason he changed was because he wasn’t able to talk to white women at his college.

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Signed a black woman in disbelief.
2 years 8 months ago

Wow! If this doesn’t convince black women to stop dating black men, I don’t know what will. White supremacy affects us all, however I’ve yet to see men of other races/ethnic groups slander their counterparts on the scale that black men do. Which black woman would want to give birth to a black man knowing that he will essentially hate you? Tupac’s predictions turned out to be right. ”Time to heal our women, be real to our women. And if we don’t we’ll have a race of babies. That will hate the ladies” I’m not saying that non-black men are… Read more »

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christina
2 years 8 months ago

Muslim bushido…Google her.please.

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christina
2 years 8 months ago

They’re not even worth hating….feel me?….
Muslim Bushido…Google her.

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2 years 8 months ago

Is That You Crispy?/

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2 years 8 months ago

Interesting article. Pros and cons to every situation. Not saying folks should forgive and forget, but women of color who solely date interracially are guilty of this too. At least this dude finally woke up. It doesnt deserve a medal or a cookie, but would rather have one less self hating black person. We’re dying too much out there to not have some sort of unity.

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Anonymous
2 years 8 months ago

Black women on here are mad hypocrites.

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Sunny
2 years 8 months ago

These freaking comments are terrible. I’m glad this guy realized his wrong, and is growing from it. Someone in the comments said he can’t change because he is 20….are you freaking serious!? You all just sound hateful. You don’t repay hate with hate, and/or ignorance with ignorance. Our history has done some serious mental brainwashing that still is in affect today, instead of cheering this black man on who has 1) Recognized his thinking as wrong, and 2) trying to make a change so much so that he wrote an article about it, all some of you are doing is… Read more »

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milan summers
2 years 8 months ago

Oh shut the fuck up, yes you do repay hate with hate especially with the way black men treat black women, but don’t worry soon some black girl is gonna to have enough and do something crazy then we’ll see what real hate is

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Sunny
2 years 8 months ago

How about you take your own advice and shut up! Yall just as bad as he ONCE was. But he’s better than u at least for trying to educate himself, learn self-respect not only for himself, but black women, and black culture, which is more than you are doing right now. I hope your ignorance is a sign of a troll, i’ve already seen one up here

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Key
2 years 8 months ago

So many angry comments… To the author, I appreciate your honesty and bravery in this. I’m glad you were able to open your eyes and choose a better path. As for every other Black girl pretty much proving the negative points he formerly believed about Black women in this comment section, I hope you are a perfect human being to be judging this guy like this, or have never done anything in your life that requires forgiveness.

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Teya
2 years 8 months ago

He’s a self hating coon plain and simple and if you wanna talk proving negative points look at any Black Man breathing. He’s no fucking hero and deserves every word of scorn he gets!

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2 years 7 months ago

To hell with him and to hell with you too. This coon didn’t apologize for shit. He explained why he’s forced to date black women. We explaining that we don’t want his ass and he can go ahead and be a slave for Becky all he wants. Black women ain’t rescuing him from being rejected by white women.

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[…] other, this black man had an obsession for non-black women for years; and this obsession led to him bashing black women on social media all because of “self-hate” as he calls […]

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rockerchick87
2 years 7 months ago

I can’t see the tweets anymore, so I didn’t get a chance to read them but by the reactions in the comment section, they must have been horrible. There is no need to apologize for feeling the way you do. It’s not fundamentally wrong to gravitate toward what you like and avoid what you do not. The problem is that you feel the need to explain yourself. If you feel hate or resentment for black women, the best you can do for their (and your own) benefit is avoid them and be happy with the women you truly want. No… Read more »

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Sunny
2 years 7 months ago

“The problem is that you feel the need to explain yourself. If you feel hate or resentment for black women, the best you can do for their (and your own) benefit is avoid them and be happy with the women you truly want”….. I’m sorry, but this is horrible advice. If he dislikes something/someone who makes him who he is today, a black woman carried him for 9 months!, he shouldn’t “avoid them and be happy”, he needs to do exactly what he did in this article: explain himself, learn from his ignorance,educate himself on why he felt that way,… Read more »

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2 years 7 months ago

Sunny be quiet. First person was right. He don’t need to apologize for liking white women and come bothering us. He need to apologize for the hate for sure and being an ignorant dick. That’s what we care about. I’m sure most of the women here was not looking to date him anyway so we don’t care about the white girl thing.

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Anonymous
2 years 7 months ago

lets not forget malcolm x, was also a self hating black man at one point of his life. to dismiss this brothers progression is to dismiss malcolm x’s legacy as well. we need to teach and not give up on our people in every single way, even if they are self hating.

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Anonymous
2 years 7 months ago

I see the trolls are out in full force in the comments.

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SickofBM
2 years 7 months ago

This is how black men of today are sit their emotional/estrogen D/L behinds down and chastiate the same women that birthed them, fed them, looked after them and stuck by them. Men like him are ALWAYS going to be around but they expect us to March/Support and appreciate them when ‘da white man’ is incarcecating and killing them. 95% of black men today get on my last f*cking nerves and as far as I’m concerned I don’t want them to speak to me whatsoever. They have a monkey see/monkey do attitude whereby they mirror everything the white man does, but… Read more »

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jusme
2 years 7 months ago

Well whoopty damn doo..is he serious, hey yaw..”we in there now”. Give me a break. Listen good for you, however in the mean time are we supposed to stand by and wait for all to reach this moment of enlightenment when the world is damn near ending….please been realized they hate our strength …been moved on..i don’t hate them..i feel sorry for them..but been moved on.

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Anonymous
2 years 7 months ago

Thank you for sharing your piece. It is upsetting that black women go unwatered and unprotected, but so do our black men. I wont bash you, but hope that you take this and grow. Bless you King

Guest
2 years 7 months ago

He is something but differently not a “king”

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Feminina
2 years 7 months ago

Unprotected?? Men, by nature, are supposed to be the protectors, not the protected. You are part of the problem that has allowed black men to be the useless, weak sissymen they are. Black men can’t build thriving autonomous nations or even thriving communities (as opposed to begging the white man to let them live in his countries), protect the women and children of their nation/community from internal and external dangers, provide (studies show most black wives are the breadwinners), raise their own children, own thriving business (rather than beg the white man to let them work in his, at the… Read more »

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Anonymous
2 years 6 months ago

Why have a crybaby, pansy, defeated black male who needs WOMEN (black women) to fight MEN (white men) to protect him, when you can have a real MAN who runs nations, businesses?? :/

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Anonymous
2 years 7 months ago

Cause and effect. If a black woman is complaining, it’s not for no reason. If the black men were leading us, playing their roles, what would they have to complain about? The worst thing a man can do is make a family and leave. Leave it to the woman to take on that heavy load. Alone. That breeds anger, frustration, bitterness, and hate towards men. So for the men to come back and say they bash us because we bash them is weak. It’s deflecting and not taking responsibility for yourselves. The black men act like they play no role… Read more »

Guest
2 years 7 months ago

Ok. So white girls didn’t want you no more and suddenly you noticed all the black women taking bullets in the face for you trying to protect you from white men? Uh huh. And I guess this here Lil apology is suppose to make me get down on my knees and kiss black men’s ass and forget about all the bulls hit they been handing us since biblical days. I love all the people coming in here acting like black women should be so happy and forgiving. One negro, who even admits he just discovered black women’s humanity because white… Read more »

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OliveTrees
2 years 6 months ago

Ew I hate these self loathing “see the light” negro men stories. These are the same horrifying men who scream when they find out my fiancee is white. If you are smart black women, stay away from these idiots. Date other men who aren’t as abusive to you. I feel sorry for girls who were attracted to this in the first place, thankfully I never grew up around black men except for my father who says negro men are humiliating.

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Anonymous
2 years 5 months ago

So are the women.

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yup
2 years 5 months ago

interracial dating for the win

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Anonymous
2 years 6 months ago

I think you are brave and courageous person to write this piece which expresses the inner you. Remain positive despite the comments there is good and bad in everyone. Sincerely an inspired black woman.

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